Monday, July 28, 2008

UTAR=Dating agency?

One of the cultures that are growing more and more evident among universities is the dating culture, ok, I shall not speak on the behalf of all universities, but in UTAR, it’s like the hottest thing around.
There are so many couples, they are like ants, they are everywhere! I mean everywhere! There are so many that if you used a slipper to smack them, you cannot finish killing them all (They are not ants, just an illustration to show how many couples there are. All the couples out there, pls don’t get angry at me…)(maybe the reason I’m able to say this so easily is because I’m still single…hehe…) I’ve been here only two and a half months, and the number of new couples has been increasing rapidly.
Students came to university to study or to date? What is their ultimate purpose? Have they lost their focus? Are they having wrong priorities?
Are they getting too desperate? Can’t wait? Afraid if they don’t date now they will never get the chance to date? Afraid if they don’t date now they will have wasted their university life? If life were an empty piece of paper, would it be less colorful?
I’m not against dating (mind you) I’m just saying I have my priorities. God comes first, then comes my family (fei miao and dadi…I miss their nagging), then thirdly is my academic life, which is my studies, then I have my music and children ministry to take care of and maybe a bf will come after these, hehe. After that will be my other passions, guitar, running, designing and shopping?! Haha.
I’m definitely not a green-eyed monster, my point is that there is no need to put myself in a desperate situation, there are much more things more important than relationships. If I were to add one more line, I would say ‘relaaaaxxxe…man man lai’

1 comment:

  1. 你这种想法 都不是现在开始的啦
    从中学你就有这样的想法了
    不是吗?哈
    我以前用尽方法改变你
    都改变不了
    反而还要我自己改变了呢。。。
    真是奇怪。。。
    不过谢谢你
    没有你 没有现在的我。。。

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